Family Discipline

Maghrib mein chu'n kay aurat aur mard donon kamatey hain donon provider hain le'haza wahan donon baraber ho saktey hain. America kay ahl e ilm ab yeh baat tasleem kartey hain kay wahan ghar ki barbaadi ki bari wajah khawateen ka job karna hai kyun kay jo bhi biwi kamaey gi uska ravaiyya housewife se bilkul mukhtalif aur amooman jarehana hoga yeh unser bara fitri hai aap ki beti ya beta jab mua'ashi le'haz se aap per inhisaar karta hai to uska ravaiyya aur hota hai magar ju'nhi wo kamana shuru karta hai uska ravaiyya bilkul badal jata hai yeh ek nafsiyati haqeeqat hai. Islam mein chu'n kay kifalat ki zimmeydaari mard per hai le'haza ghar ka woh hi hukmaran hoga aur usi ka hukum chaley ga. Humarey haan ajeeb munafiqat hai kay islam ki jo cheez humari khwahishaat kay khilaf hoti hai, humein pasand nahin hoti hai hum usey moulviyon ka dhakosla keh kar radd kar detey hain. Hum mein itni akhlaqi jurrat nahin kay hum khul kar iska inkaar kar kay mutabadil pasandeeda mazhab ikhtyar kar lein hum musalmaan bhi kehelwana chahtey hain aur islam kay unn usoolon per jo humein pasand nahin amal bhi nahin karna chahtey yaqeen karein inn mein aksaryat unn logon ki hai jo farae'z kay bhi paband nahin. Ek taraf mard sey farmaya gaya hai kay woh biwi ki kifalat karey aur uss sey acha sulook karey chuna'ncha irshad-e-nabvi hai " tum mein behetreen woh hai jo apni biwiyon kay liye behetreen saabit ho". Doosri taraf aurat se farmaya gaya kay woh khawand ki farma'n bardaari karey aur uski khushi ka khayal rakhey, chuna'ncha Hazrat Abu Omama kehtey hain kay nabi pak ne farmaya kay Khuda ka momin banda khuda sey taqwa kay ba'ad jo cheez sab sey behter apney liye intikhaab karta hai woh naek bakht aurat hai.