Yeh ek dhoka, faraeb aur jhoot hai. Kya zyada bolney sey fard kamzor ho jata hai, ya jo fard kam bolta hai ya khamosh rehta hai woh taqatwer hota hai. Pehli baat to yeh hai kay hudd ka meyar kya hai. Har fard ki hudd doosrey sey mukhtalif hai. Ek fard ki hudd haftey mein ek baar hai jab kay doosrey ki hudd din mein ek baar hai. Ta'hum ek din mein 7/8 baar karna bhi hudd sey guzarna aur zyaditi nahin hai. Haqeeqat yeh hai kay koi bhi insaan fitri tor per hudd sey zyada musht zani (masturbation) nahin kar sakta, kyun kay agar woh hudd sey zyada karey ga to mani (semen) khatam ho jaey gi aur zakar sooj jaey ga. Khusyon mein dard honay lagey ga, zakar sey mani kay bajaey khoon nikalney lagey ga aur infection ki wajah sey zakar mein dard honay lagey ga. Aisa to shayad hi kisi kay sath hua ho. Dilchasp baat yeh hai kay aisi surat mein chund din musht zani chorney sey har cheez normal ho jati hai aur koi mustaqil kharabi paeda nahin hoti, yeh fitrat ka self healing system hai. Yani kisi elaj ki zaroorat nahin. Albatta zyada musht zani aur compulsive musht zani mein farq hai. Compulsive musht zani mein fard baghaer kisi khwahish aur zaroorat kay musht zani karta hai jis tarah ba'az log bar bar hath dhotey hain. Iss surat mein yeh ek nafsiyati beemari hai jis ko OCD kaha jata hai, iss kay liye kisi mahir e nafsiyat sey elaj karaya jaey.
Ta'hem kuch musht zani kay ba'ad kamzori mehsoos kartey hain. Iski bari wajah tawaqqa (expectation) hai jis kla hum zikr kar chukey hain kay jaisa hum sochtey hain waisey hi ho jatey hain. Doosra fard musht zani ki wajah sey shadeed ehsaas e gunah mehsoos karta hai.
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