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Thursday 11 August 2011

No Negative Communication Means No Negative Consequences

In any relationship whether it is a professional or a personal one, all communication of a negative manner should be avoided. It can only make the problems or issues even worse than they already are. Positive communication and positive attitude is the best way to get ahead in all aspects of your professional and your personal life. Learn to avoid negative communications and you will be the happier for it.


Communication is a part of everyone’s lives and we all use it in some form or another every single day. It is an important part of our daily lives here o this Earth.

The first steps in avoiding communication of a negative nature is to be sure and clearly express your own self and the point which you want to come across to everyone positively and also become a well tuned in listener.

Communicate with your partner all feelings or frustrations you have as this will help you both avoid any tensions rising up later on or any misunderstandings between the two of you. If the communication lines are left open and flow freely then negative communication will become a thing which is in the past.

Special events or the upcoming holidays with family and loved ones can be very stressful for everyone around you, so communicating in an effective manner especially at these times is of the utmost importance. Don’t get stressed out over the small things, let it go and move on and have an enjoyable time with your family and friends.

Focus on whoever is speaking to you and concentrate on what they are saying to you. Keep your mind open to their opinions even if they are not your own. Don’t be defensive or judgmental to them, be a sensitive soul and listen closely, pay attention to them as they should when you are speaking.

If you would like to communicate something, be sure what the point you want to make is and be able to get it across positively and easily, be honest, clear and concise when speaking. Don’t use any generalizations which may offend others that are listening in.

Your body language is another important part in avoiding negative communication. Your movements as well as the movements of others can give you clues as to how they perceive the discussion and the topics being brought up. Always keep eye contact with someone you are speaking with and make sure your focus is on them, never cross your arms as this can be shown as a sign of boredom on your part by the speaker and come across in a negative manner.

Enjoy a life personally and professionally full of positive communication and positive attitude, use these helpful communicating tips and hints to weed out all of the negativity in communication and the rest of your life and you will make a happier and healthier person and conversationalist. People will admire your intentness and attention to them while they are speaking and enjoy the discussions you have on the subjects afterwards in a positive light, before you know it everyone will want to talk to you.

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