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Sunday, 21 August 2011

Orgasm - Sexual Climax - Sexual Pleasure - Jinsi Lutf Ki Inteha

Madina mein shuru shuru mein kay elawa doosrey tareeqey raij nahi thay. Hazrat Jabir biyan kartey hain kay yahoodion ka kehna hai kay agar koi shohar apni biwi kay peechey ki taraf reh kar (Intercourse) karey to iss surat mein bhaenga bacha paeda hoga chunancha "Tumhari biwian tumhari khaitiyan hain tum apni khwahish kay mutabiq apni khaition mein jao". Agar koi chahey to peechey ki taraf reh kar bhi mubashrat kar sakta hai lekin mubashrat sirf ek rastey faraj sey honi chahiyie. (Muslim) yahoodion kay asar ki wajah sey Madina mein ansar missionary method kay elawa doosrey methods ko jaeiz nahi samajhtey thay, Yahan tak kay Quran mein ayat nazil hui. 'Tumhari biwian tumhari khaitiyan hain tum apni khwahish kay mutabiq apni khaition mein jao' (Surah Baqra Ayat 223) albatta anus mein dakhool (penetration) haram hai.

(Sexual Climax)

Jinsi lutf ki intiha ko orgasm kaha jata hai. Mard aur aurat kay orgasm mein farq hai. Mard ka orgasm kay foran baad inzal (discharge) ho jata hai jab kay aurton ka mardon ki tarhan discharge nahi hota. Albatta 5% aurtein pani kharij karti hain. Mard orgasm ki hadd tak jald pohonch jata hai aur iss ka duration bhi kam hota hai aur woh jald normal halat mein aa jata hai. Jab kay aurat der sey orgasm hasil karti hai aur iss ka orgasm der tak rehta hai. Iss ko normal honay mein bhi zyada waqt lagta hai. Ek bara farq yeh hai kay mard taqreeban har bar orgasm hasil kar leta hai jab kay sirf 30% aurtein har bar orgasm hasil karti hain. 10% kabhi orgasm hasil nahi kartiin. Unko nafsiyati elaj aur baaz auqat operation ki zarorat part

Islamic Method Of Intercourse

Es tarhan kabhi kabhar hymen mukammal tor per rupture nahi hota, essai bhi takleef hoti hai. Iss kay elawa vagina yeh vulva mein koi allergy yeh infection bhi hosakta hai. Usually mubashrat (Intercourse) koi takleefdai process nahi hai. Agar biwi mubashrat (Intercourse) kay doran pursukoon aur relax rahey to lutf aiga. Taham baaz auqat deep dakhool (penetration) aur zoor daar strokes bhi takleef ka sabab bantai hain. Usually mubashrat (Intercourse) ka pain pahla Chund martaba kay mubashrat (Intercourse) mein hota hai. Iss kay baad lutf hi lutf. (Mobeen)

Mubashrat (Intercourse) Ka Sharaee Tariqa:

Mubashrat (Intercourse) kay bohut sey famous tareeqai hain. Famous method missionary tareeqa hai. Iss mein wife neechey jabkai husband ooper hota hai. Iss mein dakhool (penetration) easy hai magar iss mein penis bazer (Clitoris) ko touch nahi karta jiski wajha sey aurat zyada lutf andooz nahi hoti. Yeh tareeqa pre-mature inzaal (ejaculation) kay liye bhi munasib nahi. Hamara yaha yeh tareeqa hi sab sey zyada use hota hai. Baaz log jahalat ki wajha sey esko Islami tareeqa qarar daitain hain jiski wajha sey bohut si khawateen apnai husband ko mubashrat (Intercourse) ka koi dusra method use Karney nahi daitin. Halankay Hazrat Muhammad(P.BU.H) nai kisi tareeqai ko Islami tareeqa qarar nahi diya. Aurat kay zyada jinsi lutf kay liye mard neechey aur aurat ka ooper wala tareeqa zyada mufeed hai. Iss mein aurat apni marzi sey bazer (Clitoris) ko penis kay sath rub kar sakti hai aur pre-mature inzaal (ejaculation) kay liye bhi yeh tareeqa mufeed hai.

Painful Intercourse -Takleef deh Mubashrat

Mubashrat (Intercourse) Aik Takleef Deh (painful) Amar…..?

Azdwajii zindagi ki buniyad mubashrat (Intercourse) hai. Allah kay nabbi Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) nai jaiz tareeqai sey jinsi khwahish ki takmeel ko sadqa aur naiki qarar diya hai. Jiska zojain ko sawab milta hai. (Sahi Muslim)

Pakistani muashrey mein yeh bat bohut famous hai kay khawateen kay liye mubashrat (Intercourse) aik bohut painful amal hai. Jiski wajha sey aksar khawateen jinsi amal sey khauf zada hoti hain. Yeh khawateen mubashrat (Intercourse) sey lutf andooz nahi hotin aur apnai husband kay sath cooperate nahi Karti. Jo biwi mubashirat mein apnai husband kay sath tawun na karai Allah kay nabbi Hazrat Muhammad (P.B.U.H) kay ershad kay mutabiq fareshtai sari rat usper lanat bhaijtain hain. (Muslim, Bukhari, Nesai)

Buniyadi tor per mubashrat (Intercourse) husband wife dono kay liye bohut hi lutf aur sukoon daina wala amal hai. Quran mein ershad hai "Esnai tumhari hi jins sey tumharai liye jorai paeda karai taqai enkai sath milkar tum sukoon aur etminan hasil karoo" (Surah Rom Ayat 21)

Agarcha shuru mein aik aad bar hymen kay rupture honay ki wajha sey khawateen ko kuch pain hota hai. Albatta baaz khawateen ko mubashrat (Intercourse) mein takleef (pain)hoti hai jo kay aik beemari hai jissai Dyspareunia kaha jata hai. Eski wajha ya to mubashrat (Intercourse) ka khauf hota hai yeh phir wajaina mein infection waghaira. Baaz auqat aurat mubashrat (Intercourse) kay liye puri tarhan tayar nahi hoti jiski wajha sey iss kay vagina mein lubrication nahi hoti. Chunancha aurat mubashrat (Intercourse) mein takleef mehsoos karti hai .

Bath During Periods - Taking Bath During Menses

Mahwaari (menses) ka pain aksar nafsiyati hota hai. Aksar larkiyon nai suna hota hai kay mahwaari (menses) sey takleef hoti hai. Isliye woh mahwaari (menses) kay aghaz hi sey iss sey khauf zada hoti hain aur phir iss khauf ki wajha sey uterus mein stiffness aur takleef paeda hojati hai. Larkiyon ko yeh pata hona chahiya kay mahwaari (menses) koi takleef deh cheez nahi lehaza woh relax rahein. Iss sorat mein unko mahwaari (menses) ki takleef nahi hogi. Kuch khawateen ko mahwaari (menses) sey 2 ya 3 din pehley headache, backache, pait ka dard shuru ho jata hai aur inkay pistaan (Breast) swell ho jatey hain. Kuch khawateen ko puri mahwaari kay doran dard hota hai. Yeh sab kuch normal hai koi beemari nahi. Agar takleef kuch zyada ho to gynecologist sey contact karein.

Mahwaari Mein Nahana Khatarnak Hai?

(Bath During Periods - Taking Bath During Menses)

Hamarey yahan kam parhi likhi khawateen mein yeh baat bohut hi famous hai kay mahwaari mein nahaney (taking bath durng menses) aur organs ko pani waghaera sey saaf karney sey na sirf bohut si big beemariyan lag jati hain bul kay motapa bhi ho jata hai. Iss liye aksar khawateen inn dino pani sey perhaez karti hain. Halan kay mahwaari (menses) kay dinon mein larki ko daily apney jinsi aaza an per jum kar smell paeda kar sakta hai. Lagataar kaee din tak safaee na karney sey inflammation ho sakti hai. Kharish aur halkey zakhm bhi ho saktey hain. Mahwaari (menses) kay doran ghusl ya jismani safaee kay liye mosam kay mutabiq hot ya cold water use kya ja sakta hai. Iss silsiley mein kisi ghalat fehmi ka shikar nahi hona chahiyie kay mahwaari (menses) kay doran nahana khatarnak sabit ho sakta hai. (Kawal Dheer)

Painful Menses - Takleef deh Mahwaari

Mahwaari kay dinon mein paeda honay wali takleefdeh haalat na to sangeen hoti hai aur na hi mustaqil. Iss liye pareshan honay ki zaroorat nahin bul kay aisi takleef ko aam samajh kar apney aap ko maamool kay kaamon mein masroof rakhna chahiyie. Jo larkiyan aisi kisi takleef ko zyada feel karti hain aur aksar leti rehti hain woh stress ka shikar ho kar painful condition mein phans jatin hain.

Mahwaari (menses) ka aana kisi bhi larki kay liye kisi bhi tarhan pareshani ka bais nahi hona chahiyie. Larki ko yeh samajh lena chahiyie kay yeh qudrat ka ek aam jismani process hai. Usually isey bataya jata hai kay mahwaari (menses) kay dino mein larki ki zehni aur jismani halat ek beemar jaisi hoti hai aur inn dino isko zyada aaram karna chahiyie. Yeh bhi mehez ek ghalat fehmi hai. Mahwaari (menses) mein iski halat ek mareez jaisi nahi hoti bul kay jawan hoti hui larki kay liye yeh to iss kay healthy honay ki alamat hoti hai. Iss kay zariye growth hasil karney ka amal hota hai. Isliye isko apney aap ko beemar samajh kar bister per letey nahi rehna chahiyie bul kay daily routine kay kaam kaaj mein hissa lena chahiyie. Is sey woh apney qudrati mahol mein masroof reh kar un-natural mehsoos nahi karti.

Baaz larkiyon ko mahwaari (menses) painful hoti hai jo kay ek beemari Dysmenorrhea hai. Yeh 2 type ka hota hai. Pehli type mein takleef uterus kay muscles stiffness ki wajah sey hota hai. Iss ka sabab heredity, jismani aur nafsiyati bhi ho sakta hai. Yeh usually naujawani kay aaghaz mein hota hai. Jab kay doosri type mein nisbatan big age mein takleef hoti hai. Iss ka sabab usually genitalia ka shrink ho jana hota hai.

Painful Menses - Takleef deh Mahwaari

Mahwaari (menses) kay khoon sey jism aur kapron ko bachaney kay liye kafi qism kay pads use kiye jatey hain yeh sanitary towel bazar mein farokht kiye jatey hain. Iss qism kay pads zyada saaf suthrey, aramdeh aur jaraseem sey pak hotey hain aur iss kay istemal sey kafi sahoolat ho jati hai. Yeh pads iss tarhan kay baney hotey hain kay yeh khoon ko absorb kar letey hain. Bohut si larkiyan bazari pads kay bajaey ghar kay tayyar shuda cotton aur kaprey kay pads use karti hain. Aisey pads banatey huey khayal rakha jaey kay cotton aur kapra saaf ho. Rough na ho, jaraseem sey pak ho aur khoon ko achi tarhan absorb kar sakey.

Lagatar ek pads istemal karney kay bajaey pad ko badalna chahiyie. Ek pad ko zyada der use karney ki soorat mein smell paeda ho sakti hai aur kharish waghaera bhi ho sakti hain jo baad mein zyada ho sakti hai.

Mahwaari Ek Takleef deh Amar Hai? (Painful Menses)

Aksar khawateen ki mahwaari (menses) normal hoti hai aur inko koi khas takleef nahi hoti. Magar kuch khawateen mahwaari (menses) kay doran backache, headache, Pait aur pelvic region kay dard, nausea aur pressure kay ahsas ki shikayat karti hain. Iss silsiley mein sab sey ahem masla mahwaari (menses) ka pain hai. Thora bohut pain taqreeban har aurat kabhi na kabhi feel karti hai aur yeh sab kuch normal hai. Iss pain ko Aspirin ya Panadol waghaera sey control kya ja sakta hai. (Kawal Dheer)

Precautions During Menses - Mahwaari Mein Ehtiyat

Iss ki khaber yahoodiyon ko pohnchi to kehney lagey kay Nabi hamari har baat kay khilaf karna chahta hai. (Muslim, Bukhari) Iss tarhan Hazrat Maaz Bin Jaber ney arz kya "Ya Hazrat Muhammad (P.B.U.H) meri aurat haez mein ho to merey liye kiya cheez iss sey halal hai. Farmaya tehband (Naaf) sey ooper aur iss sey bachna behtar hai. (Abu Dawood)

Mahwaari (menses) mein aurat kay liye har cheez jaez hai. Siwaey namaz, Roza, Khana e ka'aba kay ander jana aur iss ka tawaf karna, Sajda e shukar aur sajda e tilawat kay. Isi tarhan aisi aurat Quran ko na touch karey aur na hi parhey albatta quran sun sakti hai.

Mahwaari (menses) kay chund dino mein agar thori si ehtiyat (precautions) rakhi jaey to munasib hoga. Inn dinon mein neend theek aani chahiyie ta kay din kay waqt bey chaini mehsoos na ho. Larki agar mahwaari (menses) ko aam routine ki cheez samajh kay pareshan nahi hoti aur hamesha ki tarhan din bhar apney kamon mein masroof rehti hai to yaqeenan woh raat ko neend kay mazey lootey gi.

Mahwaari (menses) kay dino mein khoorak thori si change karli jaey. Aam dino kay muqabley mein larki ko solid ki jagah soft aur halki diet leni chahiyie. Milk, fruit juices aur pani ki zyada miqdar leni chahiyie. Green vegetables aur fruits ka zyada istemal karna chahiyie. Fried cheezon sey parhaez karna chahiyie. Diet sada aur digestible ho.

Mahwaari (menses) mein jism kay ander kuch khas qism kay glands secretion kharij kartey hain aur in ki wajah sey paseeney (sweat) sey halki smell aaney lagti hai. Jo na sirf apney aap ko bul kay doosron ko bhi buri lagti hai. Iss smell sey mehfooz rehney kay liye jism per perfumed powder ya phir body spray waghaera use kya ja sakta hai.