How To Easily Reach The G-Spot ?

the G-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is certainly the most popular topic, with the penis size, on websites discussing sex issues, male and female health. This spot was named after Ernst Granfeberg, the famous German gynecologist who first described it in 1950, in his paper The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm. Grafenberg was a German born doctor (Adelebsen 1881 - New York 1957), of Jewish confession. Arrested by the Nazis in 1937, he escaped in 1940 with the help of friends of the International Society of Sexology, and emigrated to California.

Before trying to reach this spot, we must know where it is located. The g-spot is something like a female prostate located between the pubic bone and the cervix on the top side of vagina. The g-spot is a part of the urethral sponge, a tissue playing a great role during arousal : if correctly stimulated, this area can be very pleasurable, and lead to orgasm during sexual intercourse. Note that other women could also feel the urge to urinate when this spot is stimulated.

Indeed, this urethral tissue or sponge is like a cushion against the pubic bone and the vagina wall, surrounding the urethra. Mainly made of erectile tissue, filled with blood during arousal, it has a compressing effect on the urethra, preventing urination during sex. This tissue also contains the Skene's glands, able to produce the famous female ejaculation (usually a fluid of clear color) men are so curious about. Other scientists think the g-spot is not really a physical spot, but more probably the clitoris deepest nerves passing through the urethral tissue and connecting with the spinal column.

An important point is that the fluid produced by the Skene's glands during orgasm passes through urethra (as urine does) but must not be considered as urine or as an effect of urinary incontinence. This clear colored fluid is similar to what is produced by the prostate and that is why we can speak about female ejaculation.

The structure of this important tissue also varies during time and after the age of 30, occurring changes make the g-spot easier to reach. This is why women after 30 will be more than probably experiencing the best of their sexual life and pleasures.

But how can men reach this so mysterious spot ? In fact, 3 methods can be applied in order to reach this spot. These methods can be found in sex advices guides on the web. 1.For men having an upward curved penis, the missionary position is the best, because that kind of penis will exert greater pressure on the front wall of the vagina. 2.For men having a downward curved penis, or an uncurved penis, doggy style position is probably more suitable because of the pressure exerted against the front wall by the downward curved penis. 3.With the fingers : you must push down on the clitoris and arce the fingers upwards. Note that fingers must be at least 1 - 3 inches inside the vagina...since the exact distance greatly varies from a person to another... Good luck

Female Ejaculation - Does it really exist?

Female ejaculation is a controversial topic that continues to cause heated debates. Scientists have researching and re- researching as to weather female ejaculation exists at all. The big question mark that looms over this topic is what purpose would female ejaculation serve? Sexual biology is geared to either enable or to increase the chances of reproduction. How would female ejaculation assist this goal?

If female ejaculation does exist, it is thought to a similar orgasm climax to that of a mans climax. With a ejaculation of postate fluid (a fluid which is produced buy the prostate gland or the male g-spot in men, or the paraurethral or skenes gland in women, which is located behind the G-spot) is ejaculated on the point of climax out through the urethra.

Some experts in the field have claimed that this so called ejaculation is in fact women getting over excited and loosing control of their bladder, and accidentally 'weeing' themselves during sexual intercourse. However, female ejaculation fluid tests have shown that the fluid contains postate acid phosphatese, which is also found in male semen, of which it is a major component. The female ejaculation fluid also contains glucose, which probably contributes to what some women describe as light sweet scent. It does also contain trace amounts of two other substances usually fond in urine. However, because these amounts are minimal they may have been added tot he fluid upon ejaculation as the postate fluid passed through the urethra, because the fluids share the same exit. Flushing out the pipes as it were. Similarly in a study carried out by Dr. Santamaria Cabellol, prostate fluid was found in post orgasm urine samples of 75% of the women studied. This shows that trace amounts of substances can be deposited in the urethra and washed out later with other fluids.

Of course this study also shows that a majority of women are producing prostate fluid, which adds support to the existence of female ejaculation.

So what are we supposed to think when even the experts can't agree?

There are many women out there who are experiencing 'female ejaculation', some women themselves may think that they are 'peeing' themselves or have been told that they are from their partners. Of course they would be too worries to seek medical advice or discuss suck an issue with friends. Many women would hold back their climax for fear of wetting the bed. Whilst other couples are enjoying the pleasures of female ejaculation. Some men find it a huge turn on because it is a very visual display of sexual pleasure that obviously con not be faked.

In my experience female ejaculation does exist. It is harder to achieve than the more traditional female orgasm, but that is because of psychological issues that the female needs to overcome. Just before the point of orgasm you feel the burning need to 'pee'. However, if you dash to the bathroom you are unable to 'pee'. This is because when you are close to climax the prostate gland releases some fluid, which enters into he urethra, this is what causes the need to pee sensation. You have to get over this in your mind before you are able to loose control and ejaculate.

Lisa S. Lawless is one author of a few who have written about this topic, although Lawless takes it a bit further and claims that she can teach women how to achieve female ejaculation, she has also made a supporting DVD showing techniques. She talks passionately about female ejaculation and women's sexuality and feels that women should be given more information about female pleasure during sex education classes. She also suggests that the female ejaculation has a cleansing and anti infection purpose, an idea that would address the specialists queries as to the biological benefits of female ejaculation.

The scientists continue to study the female ejaculation, which obviously means that there isn't enough supporting evidence to rule t out completely at this stage. So quickly buy a book or DVD and buy a super-duper vibrator and get spurting your hot prostate fluids for all your worth girls, before the experts decide that your performing some absurd and kinky sexual act!

causes and treatment of Vaginal

Common Reasons for Vaginal Dryness

Vaginal dryness means lack of moisture in vagina. It creates many problems in sexual activities. It makes the sexual intercourse very painful and very less pleasurable. There are itching and burning sensation while suffering from vaginal dryness and you can first notice it during intercourse. However the common cause for this is menopause but apart from this there are also some other reasons for vaginal dryness. In order to get proper treatment of vaginal dryness you will have to determine the exact reason. Below are the various causes and treatment of vaginal dryness that can help you to prevent from it and treat your problem.

Causes
* Hormones play an important role to create dryness in vagina. The main reason for vaginal dryness is decrease of estrogen level in women. The estrogen level go down in women due to various reason including

o Cigarette smoking
o Removal of ovaries after surgery
o Menopause and Immune disorder
o Child birth and Breast feeding

* Medication during treatment of cancer including chemotherapy and radiation therapy.
* Vaginal bacterial infection.
* Sexually transmitted disease (STDs)
* Diabetes, Depression and trauma
* Sexual assault and abuse
* Using infertility drugs, Harsh dying soaps and perfumes
* Use of diaphragms and condoms may also lead to this problem due to some allergy.

Treatment

Self Care
* Wear Cotton panties. Proper air circulation will ease the problem.
* Try to avoid soap. Still if you want to use soap use good quality soap without any scent. Perfumed soap or shampoo can increase your problem.
* Use powder of perfume in such a way that it do not come in contact with your vaginal area.
* You can use vitamin E oil.
* You can use lubricant say K-Y Jelly. It will also make your sexual intercourse less painful.
* Moisturizer can also play a vital role. Single application will decrease the dryness for up to three days.

Medication
* If self-care methods do not correct your problem you should take medication under consultation of doctor.
* If the problem exists due to low level of estrogen you doctor may advise you to go for vaginal estrogen therapy.
* If the problem occurs due to some other reasons other than menopause, your doctor can suggest you a higher dose of estrogen ring, estrogen pill or patches.

Your treating specialist may ask you some personal questions e.g., rape, sexual abuse or domestic violence etc. You should answer these questions honestly to your doctor that may be very helpful to provide you correct treatment. In such a case all the information is kept confidential. After physical examination and sexual counseling the treating specialist may recommend for some laboratory test and subsequently starts treatment which involves review of medication and over-the-counter drug.

Anatomy of the Vagina

Both men and women have an internal and external region for their genitalia. This article focuses on the internal and external anatomy of the vagina which can be considered as one of the most interesting and exciting organs that can be found in the female body.

Contrary to what most people think, the vagina is not the first thing that you see in the female genitalia. As we begin from the outside, the outermost part of the female genitalia is the vulva. This is usually covered by the pubic hair which grows from the tissue called mons pubis, although some women or girls prefer to shave their pubic hair. Pubic hair aside, the next part that you will be seeing is a lip-like appearance which most people call the outer lips. These outer lips are really known as Labia Majora and contain fatty tissues that enfold the vulva from the mons pubis to the perineum (an opening that tears during childbirth). The Labia Majora contains sweat and oil glands that emit a certain scent which most people claim to be sexually stimulating. Next to Labia Majora is another set of lips called the Labia Minora or the inner lips that protects the clitoris, urethra, and the vagina.

As you go deeper, you can find a small, oval shaped part of the vagina called the clitoris or the "clit." This part is adjoined to the labia and seems to be hooded by skin. This small portion of the vagina contains numerous nerve endings that are very sensitive and this one small part contributes a very great deal, since its main function to bring sexual pleasure to women when touched or stimulated. Just below the clitoris is the urethra, which is an opening where the urine passes through. The urethra is not a part of the women's reproductive system and is much more connected to the bladder although it is located near the rest of the vaginal parts.

The opening to your vagina is covered by a thin membrane or tissue called the hymen. The intact hymen has been a symbol for virginity and is very thin and sensitive. It can be torn by rigorous activities or through penetration of the penis, vibrators, dildos, and so on. Another opening in the female genitalia is the perineum which is a stretch of skin that goes up to the anus and is where infants come out during labor.

The internal parts of the female genitalia are the vaginal canal where the penis passes through during sexual intercourse and goes to the cervix. The vagina's size can expand and contract to make way for the size of the penis. The Bartholin's glands and the hymen glands excrete fluids which serve as lubricants during sexual arousal to keep the vagina moist.

Next is the uterus or better known as the womb where the fetus grows in and held there during pregnancy. On both sides of the uterus are the fallopian tubes where the fertilization of the ova (egg) takes place. These eggs are produced in the ovaries which is another part of the vagina. Aside from ova production, the ovaries are responsible for the production of estrogen and progesterone or the female sex hormones. All of these parts make up the vagina which is the female species' vital organ in reproduction and copulation.

Sexual Desire In Women - Women And Sex

Sexual Desire In Women - Women And Sex

woh apka nafsiyati analysis karney kay baad aap kay iss masley ko hal karey kyun kay yeh ek nafsiyati masla hai. bey hudd khushgawar ho jati hai. (Hyde) Mard Inn Aurton Ko Pasand Nahi Kartey Jo Sex Ko Pasand Karti Hain? Khawateen kay zehen mein kisi na kisi tarhan yeh baat bitha di gaee hai ya beth gaee hai kay mard inn aurton ki izzat nahi kartey ya unko pasand nahi kartey jo sex ko pasand karti hain. Yeh baat na sirf mashriq mein bul kay maghrib mein bhi mashhoor hai. Iss baat ki koi haqeeqat nahi kyun kay mard aisi aurton kay sath zyada comfortable feel kartey hain aur unko pasand kartey hain jo sex mein dilchaspi leti hain. (Angelis) Aurat Mein Mard Sey 8 Guna Zyada Shahoot? Yeh baat bar bar suni jati hai kay aurton mein jinsi khwahish (sexual desire) mardon sey 8 guna zyada hoti hai. Aurat mein chahey janey ki khwahish bila mubalgha bohut hai magar jahan tak jinsi khwahish (libido) ka ta'alluq hai woh mard sey zyada nahi. Kuch researchers ka khayal hai kay iss lehaz sey mard aur aurat donon baraber hain aur kuch ka khayal hai kay mardon mein yeh khwahish thori si zyada hai. Darasal aurat mein mohabbat ki khwahish zyada hai jab kay mard mein mubashrat (Intercourse) ki. 'Woman wants to talk man wants to do'. Lehaza science kay mutabiq yeh baat bilkul ghalat hai kay aurat mein jinsi jazbat mard sey 8 guna zyada hain. (Zakir: Hyde)

woh apka nafsiyati analysis karney kay baad aap kay iss masley ko hal karey kyun kay yeh ek nafsiyati masla hai.i bey hudd khushgawar ho jati hai. (Hyde) Mard Inn Aurton Ko Pasand Nahi Kartey Jo Sex Ko Pasand Karti Hain? Khawateen kay zehen mein kisi na kisi tarhan yeh baat bitha di gaee hai ya beth gaee hai kay mard inn aurton ki izzat nahi kartey ya unko pasand nahi kartey jo sex ko pasand karti hain. Yeh baat na sirf mashriq mein bul kay maghrib mein bhi mashhoor hai. Iss baat ki koi haqeeqat nahi kyun kay mard aisi aurton kay sath zyada comfortable feel kartey hain aur unko pasand kartey hain jo sex mein dilchaspi leti hain. (Angelis) Aurat Mein Mard Sey 8 Guna Zyada Shahoot? ( Yeh baat bar bar suni jati hai kay aurton mein jinsi khwahish (sexual desire) mardon sey 8 guna zyada hoti hai. Aurat mein chahey janey ki khwahish bila mubalgha bohut hai magar jahan tak jinsi khwahish (libido) ka ta'alluq hai woh mard sey zyada nahi. Kuch researchers ka khayal hai kay iss lehaz sey mard aur aurat donon baraber hain aur kuch ka khayal hai kay mardon mein yeh khwahish thori si zyada hai. Darasal aurat mein mohabbat ki khwahish zyada hai jab kay mard mein mubashrat (Intercourse) ki. 'Woman wants to talk man wants to do'. Lehaza science kay mutabiq yeh baat bilkul ghalat hai kay aurat mein jinsi jazbat mard sey 8 guna zyada hain

Sex Is Sin - Sex Ek Gandi Cheez

Sex Ek Gandi Cheez …? (Sex Is Sin) Puri duniya mein sex ko ek gandi aur na pasandeeda cheez samjha jata hai. (Dastoor) Isliye khawateen kay bohut seyki bari wajah yehi ghalat tasawwur hai. Islam mein baghaer nikah kay l na sirf buri aur gandi cheez hai bul kay bohut bara gunah (sin) hai. Jab kay nikah kay baad jinsi amal na sirf gandi cheez nahi bul kay ek pasandeeda amal hai. Jisko Allah kay nabi Hazrat Mohammad (P.B.U.H) ney sadqa aur naeki qarar diya hai. Nikah kay baad jinsi amal mein shareek ho kar husband wife donon ajar aur sawab kay mustahiq ho jatey hain. Kya Aurat Sex Ko Pasand Nahi Karti? Logon mein ek aam khayal yeh bhi paya jata hai kay aurtein sex ko zyada pasand nahi kartiin. Iss khayal ki ek bari wajah yeh hai kay mubashrat (Intercourse) kay doran khawateen active kay bajaey passive role ada karti hain. Yani aur (Intercourse) kay doran aurtein amooman khamosh leti rehti hain. Zinda lash ki tarhan, iss doran jo karna hai mard ney karna hai. Khawateen khwahish kay bawajood mubashrat (Intercourse) mein kirdar ada nahi kartiin. Issi tarhan hamarey yahan aurat amooman pehel nahi karti. Doosrey mafroozon ki tarhan yeh bhi ek ghalat mafrooza hai. Kyun kay mard aur aurat donon hi sex ko pasand kartey hain. Donon mubashrat (Intercourse) kay khwahishmand hain lekin mashriqi sharm o haya aur ilm ki kami ki wajah sey woh mubashrat (Intercourse) mein active role play nahi karti. Agar aap ko waqaee sex na pasand hai ya iss sey nafrat hai to foran kisi mahir e nafsiyat sey raabta karein ta kay

Sexual Pleasure For Men - Jinsi Lutf Sirf Mardon Kay Liye

Aurtein Bhi Mubashrat Mein Mardon Ki Tarhan Mani Ka Ikhraj Karti Hain? La ilmi ki wajah sey humarey yahan yeh baat mashhoor hai kay aurat bhi (Intercourse) mein mard ki tarhan mani discharge karti hai. Iss ki koi haqeeqat nahi. Aurtein jab jinsi tor per stimulate hoti hain to inki vagina geeli ho jati hai aur yeh iss cheez ki alamat hai kay aurat mubashrat (Intercourse) kay liye tayyar hai aur yeh secretion iss liye hoti hai kay dakhool (penetration) aasan ho aur aurat aur mard ko mubashrat (Intercourse) mein takleef na ho. Magar aurtein hargiz mardon ki tarhan orgasm mein mani (seminal fluid) discharge nahi kartiin. Albatta 5% aurtein orgasm mein pani kharij karti hain jo kay mani (semen) nahi hota. (Dastoor: Zakir) Sirf Mardon Kay Liye? (Sexual Pleasure For Men) Humarey yahan yeh baat bhi mashhoor hai kay jinsi lutf sirf mard kay liye hai. Aurat ka kaam sirf yeh hai kay woh mard ko har tarhan sey jinsi lutf fraham karey. Is liye humarey yahan biwi sirf husband ko jinsi lutf fraham karney wali ek machine hai jisey khud jinsi lutf ki zaroorat nahi. Humarey yahan aurat ka jinsi lutf hasil karna mayoob (bura) samjha jata hai. Halan kay Allah ney jinsi milap mein husband aur wife donon kay liye sukoon rakha hai. Chunkay humarey muasharey mein aurat ka sex sey lutf andoz hona acha nahi samjha jata, jiski wajah sey aurat ki jinsi taskeen ka bandobast ya koshish nahi ki jati. Jiski wajah sey aurat shadeed frustration ka shikar hoti hai aur ghar mein laraii jhagrey hotey hain.